bbw dating

Many people are afraid of the unknown and dating is one of them.  Dating can be really hard because you worry about making the first impression.  I once dated this guy I met on BBW Dating. He had  most of the qualities girls always hope to find in a guy very nice person, gentleman, and good looking.  Our first date was at coffee house, we had the chance to interact we laughed, and seem to have an attraction for each other. So, our first date turn out fine.  The second time he invited me to his place, I was a little nervous at first but I wanted to feel okay about it.  He picked me up  at my house and we drove to his place, when he open the door to his apartment the lights were out, so I couldn’t really see anything inside the apartment.  When he reached out to turned the lights on, his apartment looked a complete disaster clothes, shoes, plates, food, and garbage pile up on top of the couch it looked like a busy supermarket.  The place had a strange smell and no matter where I looked for a place to sit, I couldn’t find anything that wasn’t disturbing and disgusting to be around.  It was shocking the way things turn out something so good outside doors, but the total opposite inside doors.  It was a turn off for me, that goes the old saying never judge a book by it’s cover.  He took me home; I erased his number from my phone and never saw him again.

Are You Mature Enough to Attract a Real Love?

One of the first things you have to ask yourself in order to master your relationships with men is – “Are you acting like a woman or a little brat that has nothing to offer.”  Even women who do have a lot to offer turn off men with their little girl behavior.   That is because society does teach us that men like immature personalities and that we should like a child or a princess. However, although this might be true of some men, it is not true of all of them.


Are you one of these women who has nothing more to offer a man but a delightful evening with an overgrown entitled brat. Not only do most men dislike the stereotype of the princess, but they also run like hell from women that don’t seem to have anything else to focus on in his or her life but what he is doing all of the time.


Women who are not mature in their approach to dating tend to attract a guy who tends to be a parent more of a partner. This is fun at first but the end result could be a lot of ego struggles and she may feel taken advantage of emotionally and physically.


Women who present themselves like little girls to men are almost never serious contenders for marriage. The man is always letting her know that on some subtle level that she is not the one and that he is waiting for someone much better to come along.


Women who are childlike suffer from anxiety when her and the man are apart because she knows that she is treated like a last resort or something that should just be settled for.


By contrast, if you act mature then you will attract a man who sees you as a lover and an equal. The partner is always aware that she is powerful and he knows that she has options if he decides not to treat her well.  A woman like this is able to trust her partner and go for days without seeing him without anxiety because she knows she has chosen the right person.


In short a woman who is mature does not have the time to chase men because she is too focused on her own life to care what he is doing or thinks of her all of the time. Love is reciprocal and sex and affection freely granted with no conditions!


Are You Dreaming of Love?

Who knew that so much of what we dream about is actually related to our relationships, sex and love.  Are you dreaming of the following topics lately?  Who could be that the new tube of lipstick you are dreaming about means something quite different.


Apple –  To dream of eating an apple or share one can mean that you will have sex in the future.

Bee – To dream of bees or being stung by a bee symbolizes fertility and attraction to the opposite sex.

Buttons – Finding or sewing buttons can be an omen that a relationship is in your future.

Clock – To dream of a clock symbolizes an awareness of your biological clock ticking especially if you want to have a child.

Diamond – This can foretell the end of a relationship rather than an engagement.

Dressing – If you dream of dressing up and especially if you dream of being dressed by someone than it means that they are attracted to you.

Drum – To hear drums or dream of them can mean sexual attraction.

Egg- This can mean the beginning of a new relationship or even that a pregnancy is in the offing.

Fog – You may feel lost in a relationship or cut off.

Frog – To dream of a frog can mean you really will meet a prince soon.

Garden – To dream of meeting someone in a garden can mean you will be friends or lovers soon.

Hair – If you dream of brushing your hair or the hair of someone else it can mean that you will be having an erotic experience soon.

Ice –To dream of ice can mean the end of a relationship or a period of sadness or isolation.

Infidelity – To dream about an infidelity is usually more of a dream about being Kitten – To dream of stroking a kitten means that you will be making love soon.

Mirror – To dream of a mirror in your bedroom can mean that someone is being unfaithful to you.

Rabbit – To dream of a bunny can portend that you are pregnant. It can also mean a repressed sex drive.

Rats –This can subconsciously mean that you are aware of an infidelity or that your relationship is in trouble.

Rose – Dreaming of a rose can be an omen that a true love will soon find you.

Underwear – This can symbolize guilt about sex or feeling uncomfortable about it.

Water – Water is fluid and symbolizes the embrace of the lover or the beloved.

Wine – This can mean that a relationship is about to become closer or more intimate.

Yawn – To dream that you are yawning could portend great physical and sexual gratification.